Hatred Remarks by Channel S Presenter, Apology and Social Implications

Racially motivated hate speech should be taken seriously. Any statement that is made by anyone in the society that intends to insult, degrade, intimidate, create anger or incite violence against someone based on religion, ethnicity, race, gender, origin of country or regional identity or any other forms is dangerous and harmful should be a matter of grave concern. Anti-religious prejudice, malicious intent of dehumanising others is not only illegal but can create huge social unrest and even violence. Such act should be avoided by anyone and as such should be condemned by the society without any reservations or personal interest. This is not only insult to the victim, individual, group, or the community but to the entire society and humanity.

This has happened recently in the Bangladeshi Community in the UK. Channel S TV presenter and founder of the same channel, Mahee Ferdous Jalil made such inflammatory comments on the programme “COVID-19″ that was live between 12 noon and 2.00 pm on channel on the 3rd May 2020. The derogatory and highly offensive remarks that were made have created a huge outcry among Hindu communities and others in the UK. Immediately, it went viral in various social media channels and people have expressed their condemnation. Local political and community leaders were informed. Multiple petitions have been launched and a serious community movement against this hate crime has been galvanised. A number of official statements were issued by the local Mayor and the Member of Parliament, with both John Biggs, Mayor of Tower Hamlets and Rushanara Ali have issued powerful condemnations of the racist comments made about Hindus, stating that the remarks were disgraceful and derogatory. Mr Biggs demands an unconditional apology and further asserts that such “disrespect and religious prejudice” has no place in community. Tower Hamlets has the highest Bangladeshi population in the UK and become the largest ethnic group with over 81,000 (according to last census) making up 32% of the population.

What Mr Jalil said? (The programme was aired in Bengali; the key message is translated in English below).

“Muslims who came to the UK from Bangladesh have inherited the low, impure and heinous blood of Hindus causing problems in the community. Due to the inherited blood of Hindus, Muslim shopkeepers cheat their customers—-”.

We are living in a free society in which freedom of expression is well protected and respected. The capacity of everyone to express their individual views are always respected and should not be threatened. Article 10 9Equality and Human Rights commission in the UK) focuses on the freedom of expression that protects individual right to hold their personal opinion and express them freely without fear or any interference from government or regulatory bodies. However, if personal views encourage religious or racial hatred or if it is dehumanising or derogatory, in which case the authorities can restrict that freedom of expression and such comments or views can be viewed as unlawful. Free debate, good actions, convincing arguments are important to counter hatred. Civil society, society at large and Governments should condemn hatred, or that which might fosters hatred and set the right examples by bringing those behind such conduct to justice. There is certainly no room in this world for odious and mendacious comments that have at their heart prejudices or twisted notions of those who may be different or hold different beliefs.

Mr Jalil finally apologised. Channel S also issued an official statement of unreserved apology on the 9th May and asking for forgiveness for the comment’s TV presenter made that may have caused distress. There was no “may” about it, the comments were deeply offensive and have hurt and alarmed a lot of people.

Is apology enough to heal the community? Was the apology done in most effective and sincere way?

It is not good enough just to convey apology or say sorry. As sometimes some apologies are insincere; and are often driven by ulterior motives such as fear of public censure or loss of business. It is logical that people will not forgive someone until they receive an apology and that should be unreserved and with remorse. Inability to convey apology correctly when it is legitimate indicates the dysfunctional life of an individual. An appropriate apology is paramount to heal the emotional and physical wellbeing of the victim. The right apology has the great power to transform both the individual who made the intentional or unintentional comments that hurt, degraded, or angered others. However, such apology should come with sincerity and remorse. Some are quite legitimately wondering whether Mr Jalil’s apology was said with true contrition. An apology like gratitude, appreciation or kindness has profound impact on an individual and society and can transform the world if it is done at the right ways, at the right time and right place. An effective apology validate that the person realised that a wrong act has been committed for which he/she has showing his/her regret or remorse and the person is committed not to do the same wrongful act in future and offer for repairs. Realisation, remorse, restoration, and request for forgiveness are some of the key elements of an unreserved apology and seeking for forgiveness.

It is sad to observer that community is not always working unitedly. People have different agendas and individual interest. Therefore, many such crimes never get the right justice and the punishment and hence, as a society we do not get the best outcome. I am sure over time this also will be deemed yesterday’s news and people will forget about this. Community become fragmented and divided, and sadly at times put profit over principle. Regrettably, those who want to ensure matters are properly resolved often see matters superseded by others pursuing their own interests. Sadly, as a consequence society is the loser.

Why society cannot be united for a common goal?

It reminds me the next quote: “What does it profit a man, if he gains the whole world and loses soul? (Mark 8.36)

This quote helped us to revisit the world social order and humans’ attitude. I am compelled to recall a salient truth in Gandhi’s observation “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not for every man’s greed”. We are living in a society of intoxication that is based on estimation, quantification of humans. Maximisation of wealth is becoming the theory of normality, an accepted mantra. This has become the norm of the society. In 1973 E. F Schumacher published his one of the most influential books on earth titled “Small is beautiful… “. He realised that if the current form of economic, technological, and scientific specialisation is not replaced by a simple form of economic system then the world will face a boundless and endless misery. Now we see the outcome of his prediction.

Society is too much greedy. We all are running after profit and wealth maximisation. To do this, crime, dishonesty, bribery, multiple dishonest and unethical relationships, falsification, fabrication, unethical acts all are acceptable norms. We do not want to ask, we all are here to enjoy, increase our pleasure, increase status and attention from others. This is the degradation of human values and morality. The loss of soul is the loss of peace and happiness. If we lose it, we accept misery what is happening now in our society. If we neglect our soul than loss is inevitable.

A wrong is a wrong

If there is one lesson that we must all learn from this most unhappy of episodes is that we cannot be sectarian about grievous wrongs and injustices. A wrong is a wrong regardless of who it comes from. If we choose to stay silent about it there is always the danger that we give the impression of our tacit approval. We need to speak out, if necessary, to censure members of our own community, for like a child, if we never tell them when they have done wrong how will they ever learn. It is essential that we use temperate language and be measured in our approach. A person can express their hurt, displeasure or indeed anger, without having recourse to threats and abuse. Each of us must strive to behave with dignity and mutual respect. Slanderous, libellous, or highly offensive comments warrant prompt and decisive action. We all need to work assiduously for a kinder and more respectful world.

Top 10 Green Presents – Gift Ideas For 2010

With the emergence of the green trend of the last few years. The marketplace has been swarmed with tools, items, toys & gadgets that promote cleanliness and being kind to the environment at the same time. Not only are these amazing inventions, and practical for many occasions, they are in fact very popular and make great birthday presents to your family or loved ones.

Here are the current top 5 Green Gift Ideas for 2010:-

1) Solar powered torches – These gadgets get their power from the sun in the day time and shine brightly at night, without using torch batteries, gas, fire etc. They give out a great ambiance light spread and make night BBQ pool parties great fun.

2) Pinzon Bamboo towels – Yes! They are newly designed towel that go to no waste. They look and feel like real cotton towels, are heavier and soak up more water when as they dry.

3) Wireless eBook Reader – Forget reading those thick books that waste paper. The new e-book readers on the market are a small screen, hand held product that you can use to download your favorite magazine or novel. They are light weight, compact, and affordable. They save time, money, and will stop paper wasting.

4) Shower Catcher – This product is ingenious. You plug it beside your shower and it catches all the grey water that normally gets wasted down your drains. This water can be collected and used on your garden, outside, or as a cleaning agent with your concrete floors.

5) 2010 Living Green Calendar – An ingenious way for people to remind themselves each day to do something that will keep them environmentally conscious. If everyone did one thing a day, image how different things would be.

Special Wedding Anniversary Presents for Friends on Special Events

Wedding is an occasion which arrives only once in the life of an individual. It is definitely true that no other occasion is as special as this one, but the date of marriage which knocks the door annually divides the pleasure of that very day into small segments. Rejoicing those moments, however, brings the marriage memories of the couples back. You can easily get several presents for friends if any of them are planning to celebrate their anniversaries. Visiting physical stores will let you come across some of the best items that you can present them on that day. To get more unique wedding anniversary gifts for friends, online stores can also be great options.

An invitation to your friend’s wedding anniversary party leads you to a dilemma on which item to choose to suit his requirements. Friends are too close to an individual. Thus, no one could ever know your friend more than yourself. You might know the future plans of your friend after marriage. If he or she wants to shift to some other settlement, presenting simple household items would be the best presents for friends on their anniversary. They will surely need to buy those items after they shift. Then why not you contribute some of them and make the shifting process a bit simpler. Along with household goods, you can present antiques and other decorative items as ideal presents for friends to enhance the look of their home.

Honeymoon after marriage is something very common in the lives of the couples. But planning a long trip for the couples on their later anniversaries could be great. If you think your friend is too busy with his professional life, being a true peer, you should arrange a long trip for the couple and give him an opportunity to spend some quality time with his life partner. Thus, a trip or travel package will be one of the most wonderful presents for friends on their anniversary, either it is the first or the twenty-fifth or later. You know very well, when your friend’s wedding anniversary is. Isn’t it? Plan a surprise party for the couple and invite close friends and family for the event. This will surely be one of the delightful wedding anniversary presents for friends.

The above-mentioned items are the common gifts that you can take into consideration as some simple presents for friends. But many people try to get something unique for the couples to make their gifts, mementos for those occasions. It’s true that each and every wedding anniversary is symbolized by some metal. If you want to give a special touch to your presents, try to get something related to those symbols. For instance, paper symbolizes the first year of a couple’s married life. Suggest your friend to write a letter full of description of his or her life partner’s qualities and make him or her feel special on the very first wedding anniversary. No other present can be as original as these unique wedding anniversary gifts.

As paper signifies the first marriage anniversary, wood is for 5th, silver for 25th, coral for 35th, gold for 50th, diamond for 60th and so on.